When offering interpersonal therapy, everything traces back to relationships. These techniques illustrate what the process actually looks like in sessions.
1. Interpersonal inventory
During the first phase of treatment, the therapist typically takes an “interpersonal inventory,” or a detailed assessment of the key people in their client’s life and how those relationships function. They’ll seek to understand romantic attachments, sources of social support, communication styles, and interpersonal problem areas.
2. Selecting an interpersonal problem area
Once the interpersonal inventory is complete, the therapist and client generally work together to select an interpersonal issue to focus on in the middle stage of treatment. These issues typically fall into one of four categories:
- Grief
- Role dispute (a mismatch in expectations between two parties in a relationship)
- Role transition (difficulty with a big change, like getting married or becoming a parent)
- Interpersonal deficits (for those with a long-standing pattern of unsatisfying relationships, but not necessarily an acute issue)
3. Communication analysis
To help correct interpersonal issues, the therapist will likely want a deeper understanding of how their client communicates. To do so, they might ask for a transcript of a conversation between the client and another person. This helps the therapist diagnose problems and get a better sense of how the client’s perception of their communication style compares to reality.
4. Role playing
If the client has communication issues that need to be fixed, the therapist may use role play so the client can practice. For example, the therapist might act like the client’s spouse so they can rehearse having a difficult conversation.
5. Decision analysis
Decision analysis helps the client think about what success looks like for them — that is, how they would like to resolve interpersonal issues. The therapist’s job is to help their client generate ideas, assess whether they’re realistic (and, if not, come up with alternatives), and prepare to implement plans.
6. Affective exploration
One of interpersonal therapy’s key tenets is that relationships directly influence mental health. To that end, the therapist will likely guide their client to think more deeply about the emotions that surface during social situations. They’ll ask open-ended questions to help their client think about their feelings in specific circumstances or with certain people.
7. Graduation
The last phase of IPT is sometimes called “graduation” because it’s all about preparing for the future. During this stage, the therapist helps their client reflect on their treatment and figure out what comes after interpersonal therapy — whether it’s a different form of mental health treatment or a plan for maintaining healthy relationships in day-to-day life, outside the therapist’s office.